"She rules my mind, as if she f***ing owned it."
SHE MEANS DISTRACTION
How many times you hear this from a guy? I guess most of
times, ofcousre from the ones who are dealing with a girl. LOL!!
I myself a girl and I totally agree with it. We and madness
go hand in hand, no matter how smart or strong we are. Most of the guys think
that no girl means no problem, no distraction, but that is not a solution at
all. I can explain you how.
Who were you before you knew this Girl?
You have a stable life, peaceful, reserved. Your work is
your only priority. You think that nobody owns you. You have the freedom to
decide what you want and do whatever you want. Checking out random girls gives
you extreme pleasure. No one is there to ask you questions at the end of the
day. And you have no doubt about the saying,"GIRL MEANS DISTRACTION"
Actually in real, it’s complete s*it. You were MAD then too.
Somewhere deep inside your heart, you feel that need to be with someone to take
care of you. Secretly, you are waiting for that ideal girl to enter your life,
the girl you imagine could be yours. Also, you sometimes feel jealous of your
besties talking to their girlfriends, partying every Saturday, posting cozy
selfies on facebook.
And Then a girl enters your life..
Her beautiful smile changed your world. She is exactly
something you dreamed about. She is spark, beautiful, a sense of adventure(lets
keep she is everything you ever wanted). But now, again you feel like
loosing your control over your balanced life and plan.
You are trying to hold on, as she came closer. Sleepless
nights, daydreams and restless thoughts, you feel like she's controlling your
mind.
Actually, you went MAD. Or maybe this is LOVE.
Your practical theory strikes again: GIRLS ARE DISTRACTION
Now, when you know that a girl have the power to control
your mind. You start stabilizing your world. Leaving that girl and ignoring her,
or changing your number, thinking that its a temporary phase of life and you
would escape this. For a day, sometimes more than days you feel great,
peaceful, light headed.
And then again, as days pass, you are mad again. If she was
the reason behind your madness then why are you still f***ing mad again?
I can explain you why!
Yes, we make you mad. But your mind couldn’t accept the fact that it’s ok to be mad for a girl and
go crazy over her. It is very much normal to be distracted by a girl. She is
going to rule it. But if you assume that distraction is damaging, that can
effect your FOCUS.
Also madness can be positive, those romantic poetry, creative
writings, powerful lyrics never originated from pure consciousness.
So, how to get back your focus?
Stop taking your life so seriously, stop judging everything
happens to you. By doing this you risk losing not just a good person and
potential life partner, but yourself. That's the last thing anyone should want
to do.
Solution is to control your mind by living in the present
and get back to her as soon as possible. The more you believe a girl is
DISTRACTING you, the more SHE WILL!