Do Girls really Distract Guys?

"She rules my mind, as if she f***ing owned it." SHE MEANS DISTRACTION

How many times you hear this from a guy? I guess most of times, ofcousre from the ones who are dealing with a girl. LOL!!

I myself a girl and I totally agree with it. We and madness go hand in hand, no matter how smart or strong we are. Most of the guys think that no girl means no problem, no distraction, but that is not a solution at all. I can explain you how.

Who were you before you knew this Girl?

You have a stable life, peaceful, reserved. Your work is your only priority. You think that nobody owns you. You have the freedom to decide what you want and do whatever you want. Checking out random girls gives you extreme pleasure. No one is there to ask you questions at the end of the day. And you have no doubt about the saying,"GIRL MEANS DISTRACTION"

Actually in real, it’s complete s*it. You were MAD then too. Somewhere deep inside your heart, you feel that need to be with someone to take care of you. Secretly, you are waiting for that ideal girl to enter your life, the girl you imagine could be yours. Also, you sometimes feel jealous of your besties talking to their girlfriends, partying every Saturday, posting cozy selfies on facebook.

And Then a girl enters your life.. 

Her beautiful smile changed your world. She is exactly something you dreamed about. She is spark, beautiful, a sense of adventure(lets keep she is everything you ever wanted). But now, again you feel like loosing your control over your balanced life and plan.

You are trying to hold on, as she came closer. Sleepless nights, daydreams and restless thoughts, you feel like she's controlling your mind.

Actually, you went MAD. Or maybe this is LOVE.

Your practical theory strikes again: GIRLS ARE DISTRACTION

Now, when you know that a girl have the power to control your mind. You start stabilizing your world. Leaving that girl and ignoring her, or changing your number, thinking that its a temporary phase of life and you would escape this. For a day, sometimes more than days you feel great, peaceful, light headed.

And then again, as days pass, you are mad again. If she was the reason behind your madness then why are you still f***ing mad again?

I can explain you why!

Yes, we make you mad. But your mind couldn’t accept  the fact that it’s ok to be mad for a girl and go crazy over her. It is very much normal to be distracted by a girl. She is going to rule it. But if you assume that distraction is damaging, that can effect your FOCUS.

Also madness can be positive, those romantic poetry, creative writings, powerful lyrics never originated from pure consciousness.

So, how to get back your focus?

Stop taking your life so seriously, stop judging everything happens to you. By doing this you risk losing not just a good person and potential life partner, but yourself. That's the last thing anyone should want to do.

Solution is to control your mind by living in the present and get back to her as soon as possible. The more you believe a girl is DISTRACTING you, the more SHE WILL!