Living in a Society where women are questioned for everything.
Why she needs a man with good financial status to marry, Is she not capable of herself?
Is she living independently?
Does she have a social circle?
Does she had past relationships?
And a Woman is trained to answer these questions carefully because this man dominating society may judge her wrong.
If she chooses to be honest, she is too direct for them.
If she chooses to lie, she is too old fashioned for them.
Even if she tries her best, she cant satisfy everyone.
Do a Man likes to answer all these questions, when it comes to him?
Ofcourse, NO!
But he has complete right to ask these from his Lady to be!!
Pathetic!
Well! It is hard to be Woman anyway.
And it is hard for the society to Accept A Woman with an Opinion!
Now, Answering all these questions to Men!
Why she needs a man with good financial status to marry, Is she not capable of herself?
Yes! She needs a Man with a Financial Status because she don't own any of his fathers property. She wants to feel secure for her and her children in future. And yes, she is capable of herself making money, despite of that she chooses to be with someone who can offer that security to her.
Is she living independently?
Well! on one hand you are looking for an educated girl and on the other hand you are questioning her independence. She is proud of her independence that she earned. She does not like being questioned about her independence. And she does not like being judged from her lifestyle.
Does she have a social circle?
I may have a social circle or may not. But I clearly understand that why you asking this question. I don't mind answering this question but I don't appreciate the intention behind the question.
Does she had past relationships?
Why you are concerned with my past more than my present and future, if you really wanted to ask this, you should have asked differently. Well! you have to learn it yourself.
May be something like, is there anything happened in past that can affect our future together?
I guess, no woman would mind to answer that question.
Why a Man is not asking about her future goals and aspirations?
I wish there would be men who agree on this, otherwise women like me are going to end up being Single.
Why she needs a man with good financial status to marry, Is she not capable of herself?
Is she living independently?
Does she have a social circle?
Does she had past relationships?
And a Woman is trained to answer these questions carefully because this man dominating society may judge her wrong.
If she chooses to be honest, she is too direct for them.
If she chooses to lie, she is too old fashioned for them.
Even if she tries her best, she cant satisfy everyone.
Do a Man likes to answer all these questions, when it comes to him?
Ofcourse, NO!
But he has complete right to ask these from his Lady to be!!
Pathetic!
Well! It is hard to be Woman anyway.
And it is hard for the society to Accept A Woman with an Opinion!
Now, Answering all these questions to Men!
Why she needs a man with good financial status to marry, Is she not capable of herself?
Yes! She needs a Man with a Financial Status because she don't own any of his fathers property. She wants to feel secure for her and her children in future. And yes, she is capable of herself making money, despite of that she chooses to be with someone who can offer that security to her.
Is she living independently?
Well! on one hand you are looking for an educated girl and on the other hand you are questioning her independence. She is proud of her independence that she earned. She does not like being questioned about her independence. And she does not like being judged from her lifestyle.
Does she have a social circle?
I may have a social circle or may not. But I clearly understand that why you asking this question. I don't mind answering this question but I don't appreciate the intention behind the question.
Does she had past relationships?
Why you are concerned with my past more than my present and future, if you really wanted to ask this, you should have asked differently. Well! you have to learn it yourself.
May be something like, is there anything happened in past that can affect our future together?
I guess, no woman would mind to answer that question.
Why a Man is not asking about her future goals and aspirations?
I wish there would be men who agree on this, otherwise women like me are going to end up being Single.
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